Laws:
The Defender Militia is a Rp, Pve guild. /s should always be in character. We are a Pagan aligned guild and LGBTQ friendly space.
Meaning if you have a friendly and / or respectful attitude towards these things, you are welcome with us. Lhp people who are thoughtful & respectful can also find a home with us.
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Remember that some people want some alone time:
Person 1; ‘Hi you wanna come along for Xyz?’ Person 2; ‘Thank you for the invite, but enjoying some alone time :)’. Person 1; ‘No worries, enjoy your time :)’.
This example will do just fine, just remember to be respectful. We all have a set amount of time, everyone’s own choice to how they want to spend it.
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Guild Ambassador:
When your a member of our guild, you are our calling card. We expect you to behave with decency, dignity and dependability. Meaning we expect good behavior from you.
This being in the guild, or on runs. Be they with guild members or non guild members. If your doing runs with people, do not leave after the first wipe. Keep with them for a while.
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This is an 18+ Guild:
This does not mean we allow NSFW media links in the chat channel. It's a mostly SFW Guild that allows some lewd humor.
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Be respectful:
Do not insult or harass, people here are comrades huh.
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This is not a dating Guild.
This is not a dating Guild, please do not treat it as one. Do not fuck each other in Guild channels.
Don’t go hunting, be creepy, don’t piss people off with that. If people grow together, they grow together.
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Please refrain from discussing topics that may trigger members: self-harm, abuse, weapons, etc.
This is a safe space and should be treated as such. If you want to discuss more serious topics, please do so in whispers.
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No inappropriate language:
You can use profanity to some degree but don't use (racial) slurs.
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No Racism, Sexism and the like:
This should go without saying. Just don't.
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No spam:
Don't disrupt chat by spamming.
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Confidentiality:
We respect the privacy and confidentiality of our members. Please be mindful of the personal information shared within the community and respect others' boundaries.
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The language of this Guild is English:
Please refrain from using other languages. It’s okay if your asking for a certain word within reason.
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Flirtatiousness:
While we do not walk on egg shells here, be mindful towards who your directing what your saying.
As guild leader I do not mind a bit of mild flirty tone in words. But it can get out of control really quickly. Some people may not be into that, so keep that to party chat or whispers.
If gets to much:
Person 1; ‘Hey shall we tone it down a bit? :) ‘. Person 2; ‘No worries :)’.
Will do just fine. Don’t be a smart ass, just do it.
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Bummed out:
It happens. Yah run did not go to well, someone said something, you got things on your mind.
Go out and touch grass. Seriously just go for a walk. All your senses get new inputs, some fresh air.
Helps a ton.
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If it hurts someone, stop:
Everyone has their own frame of reference. While things may seem normal to you, they could be different for someone else. Just stop, apologize. If you did not mean to hurt someone, you can apologize for that.
Sorry, didn’t mean to hurt you with what I said. Will do just fine. If you could have done something better in this situation. Listen to their explanation.
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Follow the CoC:
This goes without saying, pay attention to what a higher ranking member say's to you.
If there is a situation, try and resolve this as adults first. If this persists bring this forward to an officer in whisper.